After a deep conversation just now with John about marriage and connection and truth, love and possessiveness, this song showed up! I had to laugh a bit because this beautiful song seems be the pinnacle of romantic love. "I have loved you before I even knew I loved you" and I truly believe this kind of connection CAN and often DOES exist between humans on levels we do not even understand.
If we would just allow that to be OK....that we do not HAVE TO understand how it happened or why it happened, but instead ACCEPT it, nurture it and grow it, we as a collective group would do much better in the relationship arena.
How many times have you been given some kind of connective compliment or experienced an out of body vibe with another person and then questioned the living shit out of it until you have reduced this amazing, unexplainable encounter into something you did not really experience and don't deserve anyway?
Or, you felt so guilty about it that you beat yourself up for years about it?
After all, it was JUST an experience!
Why is it that we strive for the fantasy and then push anything that seems like a fantasy away? We want the fairy tale till it knocks on the door!
Knock it off, people.....get real, get connected and GET FREE !!!! Then, maybe you can love yourself deeper, longer and truer enough so you can actually give that gift of deep love to another person!
That is all!
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